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Staying Up Nights Wondering About Making the Marriage Work?

Saturday, August 15th, 2009

Look, we all know the statistics, well, maybe not literally, but we all have been told how often marriages fail. It’s talked about on your favorite talk show. There are numerous reality shows that start out with two loving couples and end up one serving the other divorce papers. In short, the stats aren’t good, and you’re smart to worry, but don’t let it interfere with what could be the wonderful experience of your life.

Forget Worrying About Making the Marriage Work – Think about Why Marriages Fail

Most of the time marriages fall apart because one or both of the people start getting selfish and feel that the world revolves around them. The truth is that if that is your perspective, the marriage is doomed. The two of you are supposed to be as one and this can not be if you are only looking out for #1. You have to be able to sacrifice parts of yourself for the existence of the marriage. It takes the two of you realizing that if you want to be as one, you may have to sacrifice yourself. The choice is simple, live as one or live as two people.

There are numerous other reasons marriages fail. You can never cover all your bases and plan against everything. Sometimes things just happen and two folks move in different directions. However, with that being said, the majority of failed marriages come from people that move too quickly and don’t take into consideration how to nurture a relationship for long lasting love – together. instead, the relationship just fizzles and fades away.

Requirements To Nurture a Relationship?

It takes an understanding of who you’re in love with, and an understanding on how to fill the needs of your partner. And no, I’m not talking about the bedroom needs.

Most people are very surprised when they hear how they can be in love with someone and not understand that person’s wants and needs – from a relationship (love and nurture) standpoint. Those that take the time to learn their partner are always the most successful in keeping that partner wildly in love with them, and vice versa.

Keep Your Partner Crazy-in-Love with You Forever?

Read My Tear-Jerker Story and see a firsthand example of how I lost the love of my life, and then won her back by recognizing (and tending) to her basic needs.

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The “Does My Ex Still Love Me” Syndrome

Tuesday, May 12th, 2009

You’ve broken up with your ex and some time has passed and all seems well, from the outside. The two of you have moved on and the life is looking very encouraging, again, from the outside. Well, what’s happening on the inside exactly? Many people in this situation find themselves wondering if their ex partner still loves them. What does that mean?

If you find yourself in this situation then you may need to seriously think about exactly why you are having these thoughts. Do you still love your ex? Are you just generally interested? The fact of the matter may very well be that you do still care about your ex, and subconsciously you wish that the break up never had occurred.

These thoughts are very typical in loving relationships that abruptly end, or end without both sides exhausting every measure to prevent it from ending. I call it the “does my ex still love me” syndrome because it seems to be on the mind of a high percentage of couples that really want to reconnect with each other.

If getting back with your ex is not possible, then you need to come to terms with the fact that you and your ex are not going to be a couple any longer. Worrying about whether they love still care for you is irrelevant and will only cause you pain. It needs to stop.

However, if there’s a will, there may very well be a way. Instead of wondering, it may be worth it to your sanity and future happiness to try and pursue reconnecting with your ex. I’ve gone through this myself, I know how you feel. I eventually won my ex back using some amazing Relationship Fixing Techniques.

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Don’t Know What You’ve Got Till It’s Gone

Sunday, May 10th, 2009

No, I’m not talking about the 80s song by Cinderella, which was a bad ass song, btw. I’m talking about the situation many of us find ourselves in where we break up with someone that we truly cared about, only to find ourselves much more unhappy once our partner is gone. It actually happens a lot, and it sucks, a lot.

It reminds me of the old Jim Carrey movie, Bruce Almighty. There’s a scene in that movie where Jim Carrey’s character is talking to Morgan Freeman (who plays God) and Jim asks Morgan why not just give everyone what they pray and ask for? Morgan replies, “what makes you think people actually know what they want?” That is so damn true.

If you were in a loving relationship where one of you made the decision to break it off too soon, it may not be a bad idea to try and rekindle what was lost. Realize this, most relationships have ups and downs, even the best of them, don’t let someone you love get away forever for something that can be fixed. If the love was there, then it’s worth giving it a second shot.

Get my FREE eBook on how I won my ex back. I provide plenty of tips and advice that I had received that really helped me win my partner back. I couldn’t be happier I took that step and decided to pursue a second chance.

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Christian Marriage Counselor vs. Online Relationship Help

Friday, March 27th, 2009

As part of the Christian religion I always opted for a Christian relationship (or marriage) counselor to help us with our relationship problems. We weren’t married, but we’re from a Christian background and we dearly loved each other so it wasn’t a stretch to try to take some advice from a Christian relationship counselor. My experience was good, and I think I did benefit from the discussions. However, I would have to say I got a whole lot more relevant information from an online relationship guru.

I learned that most religious relationship counseling tends to focus on the religious aspect of the relationship. That wasn’t a problem for us, and I think focusing specifically on that aspect may have even led us away from the true issues affecting our relationship.

As it turned out, our relationship was not very much different than 99% of all the other relationships out there. We had our ups, downs, in betweens, and moments where we just got too aggravated with one another. We even lost the ability to share our special moments together due to a lack of understanding each other and understanding how relationship grow and move in all sorts of directions. The online relationship advice we got, from a man named T.W. Jackson, showed us how to grow with it.

T.W Jackson helped us indentify the exact root cause of our troubles and his methods explained exactly how we can work with our issues to eliminate them entirely. This had nothing to do with our religious belief, which we both still practice faithfully, but it had everything to do with typical relationship growing pains.

So, in the comparison of what helped us more, the Christian marriage counselor or T.W. Jackson, we would have to pick T.W. Jackson. It really wasn’t even close.

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Staying Happy in a Relationship – 3 Secrets That Rock!

Thursday, March 26th, 2009

Do you ever wonder why some couples stay happy together? What makes their relationship different from those that failed? What are their secrets that help them remain happy in their relationship through thick and thin?

Couples have different ways of showing their love for each other in order to stay happy. Here are their top three secrets:

Always demonstrate your love

Now that you are together there is no need to be shy to show your love. A simple hug or a sweet kiss can already put a smile on your partner’s face. Do not hesitate to prove your undying devotion. Your partner will surely appreciate your effort and more likely do the same thing for you in return.

If you constantly show your love, you will erase any doubt in your partner’s mind. Say “I love you” often and be sweet and corny some of the time. It will keep your relationship happy and fun. This way you will feel secured and confident being together.

Always communicate

Constant communication does not only apply to long distance relationships. It is just as important if you and your partner live together or are near each other. When you are together, listen to each other. Talk bout your relationship and your future plans as a couple. Hear each other out especially when sharing your ideas and opinions on certain matters.

When your partner has a problem, lend her your ear and give advice if he/she asks. Always be there for each other no matter what. Give your partner a card or a gift during special occasions like your anniversary or birthdays. Call him/her at work or send him/her a message to show you’re thinking about him/her. Your thoughtfulness can charm your partner and make you happy.

Always spend precious time together

One way to stay happy in a relationship is to always spend quality time together. Spend weekends together; go to a movie or dinner date at least once per week. Time is important and you have to make use of it to build your relationship and make it last.

These top secrets of couples who stay happy can also work on you. Just follow their example and you will be in the right track toward your own happy life together.

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