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My Boyfriend Acts Like He Hates Me But I Still Love Him

Thursday, August 12th, 2010

So, your boyfriend hates you, or perhaps he said he doesn’t love you anymore and you feel like you’ve just lost the most important thing in your life. Don’t worry too much, most of the time this is not a statement of true feelings, and more of a reflection of a moment of anger or situational response.

Love is an interesting thing. Couples tend to use it almost as a way of saying goodbye or hello. We hear the ‘I love you!’ from out mate and that makes us happy, but what is it? Are we being honest?

We all think we know what it is when we meet that special someone that makes us feel good inside, but then we question if it was ever true when we break up. Did we ever really know what love was? And did we actually have it?

The truth is, love is the way you feel around a certain person; it’s how that person makes you feel. If your boyfriend says he doesn’t love you anymore, then something has changed with the way his feels about himself while being around you. And that is probably what he associates with love. His feelings for you are likely still there.

Winning the “love” back is as simple as making your boyfriend feel like he used to around you. Think about it for a while. Try to determine how he felt around you. What did he say during those one-on-one moments about how you made him feel? Those are the feelings you need to get back.

My ex walked out on me and only then did I realize how well I had it.

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Relationships Can Work After Cheating

Tuesday, August 10th, 2010

So you or your mate cheated and your trying to reconcile the relationship but your wondering if there’s any hope of making it work. The quick and dirty answer is yes, but there’s a whole lot more to it.

Far too often couples jump right back into a relationship and pretend that all is forgiven and forgotten only to find themselves in the same boat not too far down the road. There are things that must be addressed before you can successfully move on, with or without your mate. Let’s take a look at a few things…

First, you and your partner have to address the reason that caused one of you to stray. Look, cheating took place, so somebody wasn’t happy. You need to find out why. If this isn’t addressed and resolved then it will happen again, no doubt, sooner or later.

Second, you need to realize that trust has been broken and feelings have been hurt, whether they’re your feelings or your partner’s, it doesn’t matter. Just remember, trust is a hard thing to acquire and it’s even harder to regain, which means it may take some time to fully restore, but a little extra time is a small price to pay to keep someone you love in your life!

Third, you need to get some good advice on how to revive the relationship fire and put the wrong doings of the past behind you and your partner.

There are a lot of people that specialize in this (rebuilding relationships after cheating), but it always makes sense to seek out those with a track record of reconnecting couples.

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The First Step to Win Your Old Girlfreind or Boyfriend Back

Sunday, August 8th, 2010

We all experience the split up blues at some point in our life, but the pain can go much deeper if you were truly in love. A lot of the time a relationship ends because it’s the best choice - nobody gets along and it’s obviously over. However, plenty of loving relationships break up for all the wrong reasons, then one or both sits around thinking about what might have been for the rest of their lives. That sucks.

If you still have feelings for your ex girlfriend or boyfriend and would like to win her love back then you need to be very specific in your approach.

Don’t even think of apologizing right now. That’s the last thing you want to do is start apologizing for everything under the sun. This will only make you look like you’re unsure of why the break up happened and you’re just saying anything to get them back and it takes away from the true problem - and that’s what caused the break up.

Most relationships split up because there is one or maybe even a few remaining issues that are dividing two mates and slowly building a level of resentment in one or both sides. If this issue isn’t addressed then it will reach a boiling point which typically comes in the form of someone walking out of the relationship.

Some common issues that cause lovers to call it quits:

Trust is gone - something may have happened where you or your ex lover did something that resulted in a lack of trust.

Loss of interest - have you or your ex lover lost interest? Maybe nobody tries to keep the interest alive anymore?

Met Someone - maybe one of you found someone else that makes you feel the way your ex lover did when you met? Or the other way around.

Grown apart - perhaps you both have grown apart?

Incompatible - maybe what you or your ex lover thought was compatible is mistaken?

There was likely one major issue that sparked the break up, you need to find exactly what that issue is and discuss it with your old partner. Any form of getting back together without addressing the issues that resulted in the break up will not be successful very long. Always keep in mind; communication is the key to a happy relationship.

My ex walked out on me and only then did I realize how well I had it. See what I did to win my ex back.

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Get Your Ex Back by Surprise

Tuesday, January 12th, 2010

Most of us have many relationships in our lifetime. We fall in love, then out of love, then back in, etc. It seems to be a never ending cycle. Then you meet that one…

You know the one I’m talking about. The girl or guy that makes you feel blessed to be alive and share your time with. The person that seems to make you feel like you could die at that very moment and you would be satisfied with your life because you had spent some quality time with them. In short, they are what we all dream of finding - our soul mate.

Then one day it’s all gone. Your dream partner leaves you for some reason and your life is a mess… you’re so depressed you can’t work, sleep or eat. Time goes by and that doesn’t seem to make much of a difference either.

Does any of this sound familiar? If so, then you may be asking yourself just how you can get your ex back into your life. Let me say that many people have been successful in doing this. So, the chances are good that there is a possibility of this working for you as well. That alone should get you excited.

The first thing is, you have to have a clue what went wrong. Look, your ex loved you at some point, the fact that he or she was with you tells you that feelings were there, and so what changed?

Did you cheat? Did your ex cheat? Did one of you (or maybe both of you) stop communicating? These are common break up behaviors, but they are ones that can be fixed, if there’s a will from both sides.

Now, you may have a will, but your ex’s will may have to be “encouraged” a bit over time. You need to look at yourself and your relationship like you were a house that you were walking through to review before purchasing. What I mean is, be critical with yourself and how you handled the relationship. If something needed work, write it down along with a plan on making it better. Create a list of problems and ways to tackle them.

This will not only help you but it will be something you can show your ex when the time is appropriate. Many ex partner’s find this to be a big step in changing their partner’s behavior, and it surprises the heck out of them and builds a lot of “brownie” points.

Be sure to keep your eye on the ball. Let your ex know that change can happen and you would like to have another chance. You may find that you’re just too hard to turn down.

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Do You Want to Get Back With Your Ex Husband or Wife?

Monday, November 9th, 2009

More than half the couples that get married end up in divorce. That’s statistic that more and more people are learning each day. However, did you know that a good percentage of those people that get divorced WANT to get back with each other? If you’re one of those that wants o get your ex back, then read on…

Now, after going through a divorce your friends and family will likely ask you why you want to get back with your ex. They may even think you’re a little nuts for wanting to do so.

Sure, if you have had time to honestly evaluate your marriage and have come to the conclusion that you ended it too soon without trying hard enough to save it then that’s one thing.

But if you, like so many others, are just now facing the fear and uncertainty of being newly single and are starting to think being in a bad marriage is better than being alone you really need to find some help to get over the feelings of loneliness and depression before you do something you’ll regret.

If you’re positive that getting back with your ex is the best thing for both of you, here are a few simple steps you can follow:

1) Be sure you want this. Think of your future with and without your ex. What truly makes you the most happy? If you want your ex back, then set your mid to it and try like hell to get them. (Of course, do not stalk or invade the privacy of your Ex. If you know your Ex doesn’t want you back, then leave it alone.)

2) Try to talk to your ex. Don’t argue or invade their privacy. Just talk and listen. Try to honestly and maturely discuss why the relationship ended. What misunderstandings took you so far away from one another.

If the two of you can honestly discuss how you’re feeling, without recriminations, than you might actually see that you’re not that far apart after all. You have just been coming at it from opposite directions.

3) Take some time to honestly evaluate what part you played in the demise of your marriage. No one is ever completely blameless. What was your part and are you willing to change whatever behavior it was that contributed to the breakup?

4) Try to find resources that will help the two of you communicate. So many couples just have a hard time expressing themselves and listening to their partners. If you can find a way to work around this you might have a shot at not only getting back with your ex but also of making your marriage what you’d truly like it to be.

Going through a divorce is hard and unfortunate, but it’s a whole lot harder and unfortunate to live your life after realizing that you lost one of the most important pieces of it. Sure, you can do it, but the relationship may be worth trying to rekindle. Sometimes a little outside help is the only difference between life long happiness and lifelong regret.

Read My Tear-Jerker Story and see a firsthand example of how I lost the love of my life, and then won her back by recognizing (and tending) to her basic needs.

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