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Winning Love Back Without Looking Foolish

Monday, February 9th, 2009

Breaking up with someone you love can be an awfully painful experience. The pain is even worse when you don’t realize how much you love them until they are gone, then you’re left doing nothing but think of ‘what ifs’ for the rest of your life. Don’t count yourself out just yet. Winning love back isn’t impossible; you just need a plan.

The first thing you need to do is take a break from your ex lover. No communication or any interaction at all, if that’s possible in your situation. I know if you share children then it becomes impossible to cut off communication entirely. In those cases, just communicate what needs to be communicated and leave it at that. No arguing, no bickering, no insults.

The break will give you and your ex some time to reflect and some time for the real feelings to settle in. Also, it won’t make you look like you desperately need your ex soon after your break up.

During your break you need to reflect on what was right about your relationship. Think back on the happy times and try to remember the things your ex liked about you. Maybe it was the cuddling at night, or the nice love notes you used to leave for her, or the compliments you gave him. You know the stuff you used to talk about in the more intimate conversations. I know these conversations may be far away in the past, but they contain the secrets.

Once you identify what your ex liked about you, ask yourself if those qualities are (or were) still alive in your relationship just prior to breaking up. I’ll bet they faded, and that’s typical for relationships were the “newness” fades.

Now, ask yourself if you’re willing to bring those qualities back. If so, develop a plan to do it. Maybe you need to make some daily time for only you and your ex to spend together, or maybe you both need to spend more weekends going out on dates like you used to. There are numerous ways to bring back the fun and all the other important stuff that goes along with it.

Now you need to give your ex a call or preferably see them in person. I’m sure you know how to do that. Once you meet your ex tell them how good it is to see them and apologize for any nastiness that occurred in the break up (we all have nasty break ups at times).

Then let your ex know that you still have feelings for them and have done some serious soul searching and have realized some of the important things in the relationship have faded. Con vey to them how you’d like to get back together and share your plan on how you’re going to bring those special moments back.

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Win Back Your Love with a Simple and Highly Effective Technique.

Saturday, February 7th, 2009

Those of us that were lucky enough to find true love know how difficult it is when you lose it. It really doesn’t matter what the break up circumstances were or who initiated the break up, it hurts the same either way. Love is an amazing thing, and only those that have love and lost know what it’s truly like to want to win back your love.

How can you win back your love after a break up?

The first thing you need to do is take a breather – take a break. You both probably said some not-so-nice things to one another and you both need some time away to let things cool. This can be a matter of a few days or even a few weeks depending on the circumstances of the break up. Don’t worry, this time off won’t have any negative impact on your chances to win back your love. It will help.

While you’re taking a breather, think about the relationship with your ex, but concentrate on the good times. Try to identify what made you both laugh and happy. Was it something he or she said or did to you that made you happy? Was it something that you said or did to him that made him happy? It could just be little things like leaving notes on your lover’s pillow saying you love them, or telling them how lucky you are to have them.

You’ll likely notice that many of these little things faded or are just gone from the current relationship (prior to the break up). They may seem like little things, but they’re really not so little at all. These are the things that keep us together – they keep us happy.

Write down what you’ve noticed was lacking. Ask yourself if you can bring those qualities back to the relationship, and decide how you’re going to bring those back. Maybe it will take you designating some special time each day/week where you and your lover can share those wonderful moments.

Now, call your ex lover and immediately apologize for the tension and anything that was said during the break that you regret (we all say these things). Then just go right into it. Tell them your feelings remain and the things that you’ve realized were missing in the relationship and how you would like to rekindle those moments.

Your ex lover will be hit with 4 powerful motivators. One, you apologized for your not-so-nice actions. Two, you identified what made them happy. Three, you want to make them happy again. Four, you even have a plan how to do it. If your goal was to win back your love, I’d say this will give you the best shot!

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Unfaithful Cheating Wife Signs to Watch Out For

Thursday, February 5th, 2009

There’s only one thing that hurts more than the suspicion that your wife may be unfaithful to you in some way or another, and that’s finally confirming it and hearing her tell you she’d like to leave you. If you’re still in love with your wife, then looking for unfaithful cheating wife signs is a step in the right direction to putting a stop to any split up.

Why are women unfaithful?

There are many reasons, and every relationship is different, but a good majority of the reasons wives become unfaithful is because they find themselves in a relationship where they no longer feel needed or even wanted. These may be totally false feelings and just due to relationship fatigue.

Relationship fatigue is typically encountered in longer term relationships where the “newness” dies down and both are very used to each other and tend to take for granted the other’s contributions to the relationship.
Compliments are made less and less and intimacy even fades as well. Most of all, interest in the other’s day-to-day activities fades. This stuff is very important to women.

Women need to feel like they are on someone’s mind – they make someone happy. If that affection isn’t shown, it could very well push them to look for it elsewhere.

Take a look at your current and past relationship with your wife. Can you see a difference in the attention you gave her when you first met vs. the attention you give her now? Be honest.

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