Archive for May, 2009

Does My Ex Still Love Me Online Quiz

Saturday, May 16th, 2009

A lot of people are resorting to online love quizzes to find out if their long lost love still has any interest in them. if this is a route that you’re looking for, please understand that you need to be very careful with these generic quizzes. Some offer some decent advice to take into account how your ex may feel, but most are utterly worthless. I mean, they’re garbage!

Look, people are very different. They have different dreams, desires and needs. There’s no way to compute how an old flame may feel about you or what they desire by answering a few questions in an online love quiz. Computers are very smart, but they sure aren’t at that stage just yet.

You need to get the word directly from the horse’s mouth. Sorry, I didn’t mean to insult anyone in that last sentence, it’s just a figure of speech; meaning, let her or him tell you how they feel. There’s just no better way to get the most accurate result. Unless, of course, they lie to you, but you can usually get a fairly truthful answer as long as some time has passed and the negative feelings from the break up have worn off.

Far too often people bottle their feelings inside their heads for years because they’re too stubborn to actually make the first move and ask their ex how they feel. I agree, it can make for a little uncomfortable situation, but it’s well worth it, especially if you’re still in love. This one move can be the difference between a life full of happiness and a life full of “what if” questions.

My ex walked out on me and I was devastated. I loved her. I took some time and did a lot of soul searching and eventually made the first move to win her back. It was nerve racking at first, but I used some awesome Relationship Saving Techniques that really helped.

The “Does My Ex Still Love Me” Syndrome

Tuesday, May 12th, 2009

You’ve broken up with your ex and some time has passed and all seems well, from the outside. The two of you have moved on and the life is looking very encouraging, again, from the outside. Well, what’s happening on the inside exactly? Many people in this situation find themselves wondering if their ex partner still loves them. What does that mean?

If you find yourself in this situation then you may need to seriously think about exactly why you are having these thoughts. Do you still love your ex? Are you just generally interested? The fact of the matter may very well be that you do still care about your ex, and subconsciously you wish that the break up never had occurred.

These thoughts are very typical in loving relationships that abruptly end, or end without both sides exhausting every measure to prevent it from ending. I call it the “does my ex still love me” syndrome because it seems to be on the mind of a high percentage of couples that really want to reconnect with each other.

If getting back with your ex is not possible, then you need to come to terms with the fact that you and your ex are not going to be a couple any longer. Worrying about whether they love still care for you is irrelevant and will only cause you pain. It needs to stop.

However, if there’s a will, there may very well be a way. Instead of wondering, it may be worth it to your sanity and future happiness to try and pursue reconnecting with your ex. I’ve gone through this myself, I know how you feel. I eventually won my ex back using some amazing Relationship Fixing Techniques.

Don’t Know What You’ve Got Till It’s Gone

Sunday, May 10th, 2009

No, I’m not talking about the 80s song by Cinderella, which was a bad ass song, btw. I’m talking about the situation many of us find ourselves in where we break up with someone that we truly cared about, only to find ourselves much more unhappy once our partner is gone. It actually happens a lot, and it sucks, a lot.

It reminds me of the old Jim Carrey movie, Bruce Almighty. There’s a scene in that movie where Jim Carrey’s character is talking to Morgan Freeman (who plays God) and Jim asks Morgan why not just give everyone what they pray and ask for? Morgan replies, “what makes you think people actually know what they want?” That is so damn true.

If you were in a loving relationship where one of you made the decision to break it off too soon, it may not be a bad idea to try and rekindle what was lost. Realize this, most relationships have ups and downs, even the best of them, don’t let someone you love get away forever for something that can be fixed. If the love was there, then it’s worth giving it a second shot.

Get my FREE eBook on how I won my ex back. I provide plenty of tips and advice that I had received that really helped me win my partner back. I couldn’t be happier I took that step and decided to pursue a second chance.