You made the call and separated from your ex and thought that life would be better but instead you find yourself lonely and wanting him back. Well, don’t throw in the towel so easily. I’ve got some advice that will help you get a little less confused…
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Deciding to break up means that you must have either got ticked off at something he did, or became bored with the relationship. Most cases it’s the boredom that’s the issue, so that’s what I will focus on.
The truth is, most relationships experience an “excitement slowdown” at some point. This happens even in the most happily married couples. You must realize if you’re expecting to have that same level of excitement that you did when you first met throughout the relationship, then you’re setting yourself up for disappointment.
When two couples first meet things are new, neither knows much about the other, and they’re both racing to find out as much as they can as soon as possible. It’s exciting. However, this excitement is usually replaces by another form of enjoyment that we sometimes cannot recognize until it’s gone - love and security
Many long-term relationships over time gain a sense of love and security when the couples are around each other. Only when it’s gone (i.e. they break up), do they feel what’s lost. No, this isn’t excitement, but it’s something each of us needs.
If you realize that you made a mistake and want you man back then own up to the mistake and tell him that. If things are beyond simply telling him you’re sorry, then get some help from an online relationship Guru that’s helped over 34,000 couples find love again.
Making Up Magic has helped over 34,000 couples find true love again.