Getting over a relationship with an Ex can be a very difficult thing to do, especially if the relationship had more good times than bad. The feelings that you have for your ex can linger for quite some time, and in fact, they may never go away. That doesn’t necessarily mean you should get back with you ex.
Some relationships weren’t meant to be lifelong partnerships. You may have had some very good times while you were together, but the bad times just outweighed the good stuff, and changing the bad stuff isn’t always under your control. In these cases, you’re probably better off just moving forward and looking for someone else that you’re more compatible with.
However, there are those times when two perfectly compatible people seem to part ways for reasons that are not very significant. Some of these reasons can include arguing over small things, insecurity, aggravation, invasion of personal space, etc. All of these things can cause great problems in a relationship, but they can also be greatly reduced by opening the lines of communication between you and your partner.
If your relationship with your ex had more good times than bad, then you may want to take the next step to getting back with your ex. You can certainly get the good times back, and you should also take the right steps to removing the bad times, whatever those steps may be, so you and your ex can have a totally happy relationship and dodge another break up in the future.
My ex broke up with me, and we had a great relationship. Grated, there were bad times, but I knew I wanted her back to regain those good moments that I loved so much.