The success rate for most relationships (yes even marriages) is lower than 50% in the United States. And that rate doesn’t include the relationships that are still together but suffer commitment issues, like cheating. What does this say? It says that people have a hard time trying to figure out what they want. Of course, when you lose the family and kids over it, things start looking grimmer.
Look, it’s one thing to break out of a relationship - most people do at some point in their lives, but it’s another whole ordeal to lose your family over it. The life that you had with you partner (wife, husband, girlfriend, or boyfriend) is also the life that your children have. A stupid mistake on your part or your partner’s part can certainly cause heartache for your kids.
What do you do? You have to ask yourself if you seriously love your partner. Sure your children will be hurt in the split, but they will get over it with proper love from both sides. In order to make the family function there has to be love and commitment between the parents. If you’re certain that the love is still alive, then you need to get your family back - if not for your sake, for your children’s.
The best thing to do is consult with someone that has experience in rebuilding broken relationships. You don’t need any fancy doctor and therapist. There are relationship building specialists online that can help you enormously and save you a boat load of money at the same time.
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