Being cheated on is one of the worst things (if not the worst thing) a partner can do, especially two loving partners. Why would your wife risk a loving relationship? There is no easy answer or quick fix to a problem like this, so don’t burden yourself with trying to come up with one.
The fact is more relationships deal with some form of cheating than relationships that don’t. Of course, we never think that our relationship would ever come to that, but the statistics show, sooner or later, it likely will.
Should you get over it? How do you get over it?
If you and your partner just don’t love each other anymore, then no, you should both go your separate ways. However, if you love you wife and she loves you, then yes, without any doubt you should try to get over it. But how can you do that?
Getting over the fact that your wife cheated on you will take time. You need to accept that right from the get go. Your wife may have cheated on you for no good reason other than “it was a mistake”. If this is the case, she’ll have to prove her loyalty and earn her trust back, and that will take time.
However, you and your wife may have drifted apart in some aspect. She may feel lacking in attention or emotional support, granted that is not a good excuse, but it is a popular reason why people cheat. They simply try to fill the void elsewhere. But don’t worry these things can be fixed.
Communication is the key to a long lasting and fulfilling relationship. Not the normal chit-chat, but the deep conversations where each partner tells the other how they feel. Desires are communicated. Fears are communicated. Common needs are communicated. And action must be taken on these exchanges.
Setting aside weekly “deep communication” sessions with your partner will definitely go a long way in making sure each other’s needs are met, or at least known. This is a very good practice to strengthen the bond with your partner.
So are you stupid for loving someone that cheated on you? Of course not. Loving your wife that cheated on you isn’t a stupid thing. True love is worth the trouble.
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