Alright, let me just say upfront that not all ex partners want the other back. If you know your partner doesn’t have feelings for you, it doesn’t matter what you get them, it won’t be worth your time or theirs in trying to make the relationship work. Move on. It will hurt, but move on and find yourself a mutually loving partner.
On the other hand, there are those situations where you may hear the couple say something like “we’re in love with each other, but he/she just drives me nuts”. Well, more times than not, there’s a communication break down happening here. This is a very common relationship problem and very easy to resolve with a little effort and a little reading.
Unfortunately, in these types of situations, flowers by themselves won’t get you very far.
You see, someone can only be “driven nuts” for so long before they take action. More times than not, it’s the wrong action - they break off the relationship - they leave. They’re still in love, but they had to get away, so they thought. Unfortunately, now they find themselves completely lonely and miserable because they miss the other person. Yes, this is a vicious cycle. Ever hear the phrase “can’t live with them, can’t live without them”?
Sadly, some of these break ups are permanent. All because no one ever took the initiative to try to make things work, to try and identify the sticking points (reasons they’re driving the other nuts). Sometimes this takes some outside help. I was in this very situation and won my ex back with some very simple relationship building methods. I even wrote an eBook to help others in my situation.
You can download my Rekindle the Love eBook here for free.