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The “Does My Ex Still Love Me” Syndrome

Tuesday, May 12th, 2009

You’ve broken up with your ex and some time has passed and all seems well, from the outside. The two of you have moved on and the life is looking very encouraging, again, from the outside. Well, what’s happening on the inside exactly? Many people in this situation find themselves wondering if their ex partner still loves them. What does that mean?

If you find yourself in this situation then you may need to seriously think about exactly why you are having these thoughts. Do you still love your ex? Are you just generally interested? The fact of the matter may very well be that you do still care about your ex, and subconsciously you wish that the break up never had occurred.

These thoughts are very typical in loving relationships that abruptly end, or end without both sides exhausting every measure to prevent it from ending. I call it the “does my ex still love me” syndrome because it seems to be on the mind of a high percentage of couples that really want to reconnect with each other.

If getting back with your ex is not possible, then you need to come to terms with the fact that you and your ex are not going to be a couple any longer. Worrying about whether they love still care for you is irrelevant and will only cause you pain. It needs to stop.

However, if there’s a will, there may very well be a way. Instead of wondering, it may be worth it to your sanity and future happiness to try and pursue reconnecting with your ex. I’ve gone through this myself, I know how you feel. I eventually won my ex back using some amazing Relationship Fixing Techniques.

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4 Tips to Help Forget a Break Up

Sunday, March 15th, 2009

Breaking up stinks! We’ve all done it at some point in our lives and it can be quite painful. Instead of sitting around and dwelling in the pain try to take action to get your mind off of it.

Here are some good ways on how to keep your mind off of your breakup:

Get together with your friends
Try to catch a movie, go to the beach, go shoot some pool, go for a walk, etc. Try to do anything you can with them to help you forget about your ex.

Try out some new activities/hobbies
Break away from your usual routine. Now that you have more time for yourself, try out a new hobby or even help out your community somehow. This will keep you busy and certainly help you forget about your broken heart. In addition, you will gain some happiness knowing that you’re doing something good for others.

Get more family time
Your family will do anything to keep you happy especially when you’re still suffering from a breakup. Your family members know how to sympathize with you and their presence can boost your mood.

Date other men/women (after some time passes)
A breakup opens new opportunities for you and one of these is the chance to meet other members of the opposite sex. Do not close your heart and deprive yourself of finally finding Mr./Ms. Right. There is someone out there for you.

However, don’t jump into dating too soon after a break up. You really do need some time without being in a relationship to help get over your past relationship, if that makes sense. Trying to get back into the dating other people too soon will only cause you make comparisons of your date to your ex, and that will get you down.

Remember, get active, embrace family and friends, and when the time is right, get yourself back in the game and find your soul mate!

What if you still love your ex?

Then you need to either accept that they are gone, or try to mend whatever it is that caused your break up. The best way to rekindle a broken up relationship is to get advice from someone that knows how to win back lost love.

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3 Questions to Ask Before Ending a Relationship

Wednesday, January 28th, 2009

There are times when good relationships must come to an end. You did everything you can do and the situation is just not going to recover. Ending relationships are hard to do, but they are a fact of life. On the other hand, there are times when good relationships come to an end prematurely. These are the truly unfortunate instances.

What makes a relationship come to an end prematurely? Typically, two loving and mostly happy couples let little things get between them and they’re just not familiar with how to resolve these things.

If you find you’re part of a relationship that is heading toward an end, ask yourself the following questions:

1) Have you both fully discussed the issues that are tearing you both apart?

I’m not talking about some basic chit-chat. I’m talking about sitting down privately and focusing on what the issues are, and working together to try and find a workable solution for both of you.

2) Are you still in love with your partner?

If you’re not in love, you’re not in love. However, you should know that every relationship has its good moments and its not-so-great moments. Simply because you’ve had some bad times doesn’t necessarily mean you stop loving one another. It means you need to start communicating more.

3) Does your partner tend (or try to tend) to your physical and emotional needs?

If not, guess what? You’re probably in a normal relationship. It’s unfortunate, but for most couples the fire that was once there simply fades to a certain degree over time. Again, communication is the key to any successful relationship and it will do wonders for your physical and emotional needs as well.

Now, if you answered yes to number 1, and you truly believe it, then that’s a bad sign. Because it indicates that you both know what really bothers the other person and neither of you were satisfied with your team effort on how to resolve it. However, there is still hope, especially if you’re still in love with your partner. You can always find great help on how to give-and-take from one another. I’ll talk more about that in a moment.

If you answered no to number 2, then it’s probably over, sadly. A relationship needs love to survive, happily.

If you answered no to number 3, then it’s probably time that you and your partner got some relationship help. Don’t fear, even the closest relationships need some help from time to time. The sad part is when they don’t take it.

As long as you love your partner, and your partner loves you, then you both owe it to each other to seek a helping hand from someone that specializes in bringing couples together and finding common ground.

I was in this same situation myself. In fact, my partner left me. After a few months of devastation and searching on the Internet for a reason for her leaving, I found some outstanding techniques to really take our relationship to the next level. I even wrote an eBook to help others in my situation. You can download my Rekindle the Love eBook here for free.

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Breaking Up Hurt Like Hell, So Should We Try Again?

Tuesday, January 27th, 2009

Let’s face it, breaking up with someone you’ve been with for a decent amount of time is going to have some degree of hurt that will come along with it. There is just no easy way to get around it. In fact, they say breaking out of a serious relationship can bring more physically pain than a broken limb. I certainly have experienced this pain. It just cuts like a knife.

They also say the only way to combat this pain is through the passing of time. I would agree with this. Time will always ease the pain, it may not ease your love for your partner, but it will become easier to function as time passes. Sometimes that’s just all you can do - count on time to kick in.

It should also be noted that not all break ups need to be final. Sometimes two people in love with one another find themselves not seeing eye-to-eye over petty things that they really don’t mean anything, yet they continue to put a strain on the relationship. In these cases it seems like the lines of communication just break down and one person becomes fed up and decides it’s over, maybe after a heated argument.

These are really unfortunate situations. Typically you’ll end up with two hard-headed individuals going through hell because of it. Both too stubburn to give the other a call and talk things through. For some reason, as time goes by, it gets harder and harder to try to make the next step to reconcile.

I won my ex back using some very simple and effective methods. I’ll show you exactly how I did it in my free eBook called Rekindle the Love. Just click on the link and download your copy now.

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Breaking Up Hurts - Not Sure If I Want To Go Through Again

Friday, January 23rd, 2009

Breaking up with someone you’ve been with for a decent amount of time is going to have some degree of hurt that will come along with it. There’s no getting around it. In fact, they say breaking out of a serious relationship can bring more physically pain than a broken limb. I certainly have experienced this pain in my break up with my long time girlfriend. It sucks.

They also say the only way to combat this pain is through the passing of time. I would agree with this. Time will always ease the pain, it may not ease your love for your partner, but it will become easier to function as time passes. Sometimes that’s just all you can do - count on time to kick in.

It should also be noted that not all break ups need to be final. Sometimes two people in love with one another find themselves not seeing eye-to-eye over petty things that they really don’t mean anything, yet they continue to put a strain on the relationship. In these cases it seems like the lines of communication just break down and one person becomes fed up and decides it’s over, maybe after a heated argument.

These are really unfortunate situations. Typically you’ll end up with two hard-headed individuals going through hell because of it. Both too stubburn to give the other a call and talk things through. For some reason, as time goes by, it gets harder and harder to try to make the next step to reconcile.

Not every break up can be recovered. But if you find yourself in love with someone and you’d like to find a way to win them back, then take the next step. Get some help with finding out what went wrong and how to approach getting your ex back.

See how I got my ex girlfriend back.

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