Posts Tagged ‘Cheating’

When an Old Flame Comes Marching In

Sunday, April 12th, 2009

We hear about these situations all the time. Someone appears to be in a good relationship, then BAM! Just like gangbusters, an old flame enters the picture and stirs up a bunch of emotions and complications. If you find yourself in this type of situation then I can only offer you one bit of advice - be very careful!

It’s true, old flames tend to burn pretty hot and heavy after some time passes, especially if the old flame was a first love. So having these feelings shouldn’t cause you to ignite any guilt on yourself, but acting on these feelings is another thing entirely.

But what if your current relationship isn’t so great? So what! Yea, I’m serious, so what!

Look, it really doesn’t matter if your current relationship is on the rocks or not, you need to think twice before acting here. You owe it to your current partner, maybe even kids (if any), and most importantly, yourself.

Just how do you think you will feel knowing you’ve hurt your partner or maybe even your kids for just for a temporary fling with an old flame? Believe me, the lasting pain is something that can’t be resolved quite so easily, and something that will stick to your character resume for quite some time.

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Before you take the leap and very likely get burned, take stock of what you have. An old flame is an old flame for a reason. It didn’t work once, and odds are it won’t work again. Stay true to yourself and your current partner by seeing the current relationship through. If your current relationship isn’t meant to be, then perhaps it should end, but do it the right way. Stay true to yourself and keep your respect.

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I Cheated on My Girlfriend - Can My Girlfriend Forgive Me?

Friday, February 13th, 2009

You did something stupid and got caught and now your loving girlfriend has called it quits. Unfortunately, this tends to happen in many relationships. Usually, cheating is the culprit. For some reason, some guys are just blind to the good things they have and cave into their poor judgment. In the end both seem to pay for it and you’re left wondering how to make your girlfriend forgive you.

Now, if the love is strong between you and your girlfriend, then you both can work this out. However, that doesn’t mean that you immediately demand your girlfriend to start working with you on this. She’s going to need some time to cool. You’re going to need some time feel bad about this whole thing, which you deserve. However, you can also use this time to your benefit.

While you’re stranded alone by yourself thinking of the wrong choice you made, you need to also be thinking about your game plan to winning over your girlfriend again. You can start by thinking about how you will make fist contact with her.

First contact is the most important time in the process of getting your girlfriend back. Don’t approach her and apologize then tell her you cheated because she didn’t do some specific thing. That will unquestionably make the situation worse. Man, forget that approach!

A better strategy is to let your girlfriend know that you realize what you did was absolutely wrong on many levels, and with the time you’ve had to yourself you also know how painful it has been without her in your life. Explain that you had an enormous mental lapse of judgment and risked something as wonderful as her for something that couldn’t even measure up – on any scale.

You have to build HER up to make her feel like the BEST choice between her and the other women… only then can you make your way back into her life.

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Unfaithful Cheating Wife Signs to Watch Out For

Thursday, February 5th, 2009

There’s only one thing that hurts more than the suspicion that your wife may be unfaithful to you in some way or another, and that’s finally confirming it and hearing her tell you she’d like to leave you. If you’re still in love with your wife, then looking for unfaithful cheating wife signs is a step in the right direction to putting a stop to any split up.

Why are women unfaithful?

There are many reasons, and every relationship is different, but a good majority of the reasons wives become unfaithful is because they find themselves in a relationship where they no longer feel needed or even wanted. These may be totally false feelings and just due to relationship fatigue.

Relationship fatigue is typically encountered in longer term relationships where the “newness” dies down and both are very used to each other and tend to take for granted the other’s contributions to the relationship.
Compliments are made less and less and intimacy even fades as well. Most of all, interest in the other’s day-to-day activities fades. This stuff is very important to women.

Women need to feel like they are on someone’s mind – they make someone happy. If that affection isn’t shown, it could very well push them to look for it elsewhere.

Take a look at your current and past relationship with your wife. Can you see a difference in the attention you gave her when you first met vs. the attention you give her now? Be honest.

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My Wife Cheated on Me - Should I Still Love Her?

Friday, January 30th, 2009

Being cheated on is one of the worst things (if not the worst thing) a partner can do, especially two loving partners. Why would your wife risk a loving relationship? There is no easy answer or quick fix to a problem like this, so don’t burden yourself with trying to come up with one.

The fact is more relationships deal with some form of cheating than relationships that don’t. Of course, we never think that our relationship would ever come to that, but the statistics show, sooner or later, it likely will.

Should you get over it? How do you get over it?

If you and your partner just don’t love each other anymore, then no, you should both go your separate ways. However, if you love you wife and she loves you, then yes, without any doubt you should try to get over it. But how can you do that?

Getting over the fact that your wife cheated on you will take time. You need to accept that right from the get go. Your wife may have cheated on you for no good reason other than “it was a mistake”. If this is the case, she’ll have to prove her loyalty and earn her trust back, and that will take time.

However, you and your wife may have drifted apart in some aspect. She may feel lacking in attention or emotional support, granted that is not a good excuse, but it is a popular reason why people cheat. They simply try to fill the void elsewhere. But don’t worry these things can be fixed.

Communication is the key to a long lasting and fulfilling relationship. Not the normal chit-chat, but the deep conversations where each partner tells the other how they feel. Desires are communicated. Fears are communicated. Common needs are communicated. And action must be taken on these exchanges.

Setting aside weekly “deep communication” sessions with your partner will definitely go a long way in making sure each other’s needs are met, or at least known. This is a very good practice to strengthen the bond with your partner.

So are you stupid for loving someone that cheated on you? Of course not. Loving your wife that cheated on you isn’t a stupid thing. True love is worth the trouble.

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