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Get Your Ex Back by Surprise

Tuesday, January 12th, 2010

Most of us have many relationships in our lifetime. We fall in love, then out of love, then back in, etc. It seems to be a never ending cycle. Then you meet that one…

You know the one I’m talking about. The girl or guy that makes you feel blessed to be alive and share your time with. The person that seems to make you feel like you could die at that very moment and you would be satisfied with your life because you had spent some quality time with them. In short, they are what we all dream of finding - our soul mate.

Then one day it’s all gone. Your dream partner leaves you for some reason and your life is a mess… you’re so depressed you can’t work, sleep or eat. Time goes by and that doesn’t seem to make much of a difference either.

Does any of this sound familiar? If so, then you may be asking yourself just how you can get your ex back into your life. Let me say that many people have been successful in doing this. So, the chances are good that there is a possibility of this working for you as well. That alone should get you excited.

The first thing is, you have to have a clue what went wrong. Look, your ex loved you at some point, the fact that he or she was with you tells you that feelings were there, and so what changed?

Did you cheat? Did your ex cheat? Did one of you (or maybe both of you) stop communicating? These are common break up behaviors, but they are ones that can be fixed, if there’s a will from both sides.

Now, you may have a will, but your ex’s will may have to be “encouraged” a bit over time. You need to look at yourself and your relationship like you were a house that you were walking through to review before purchasing. What I mean is, be critical with yourself and how you handled the relationship. If something needed work, write it down along with a plan on making it better. Create a list of problems and ways to tackle them.

This will not only help you but it will be something you can show your ex when the time is appropriate. Many ex partner’s find this to be a big step in changing their partner’s behavior, and it surprises the heck out of them and builds a lot of “brownie” points.

Be sure to keep your eye on the ball. Let your ex know that change can happen and you would like to have another chance. You may find that you’re just too hard to turn down.

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Do You Want to Get Back With Your Ex Husband or Wife?

Monday, November 9th, 2009

More than half the couples that get married end up in divorce. That’s statistic that more and more people are learning each day. However, did you know that a good percentage of those people that get divorced WANT to get back with each other? If you’re one of those that wants o get your ex back, then read on…

Now, after going through a divorce your friends and family will likely ask you why you want to get back with your ex. They may even think you’re a little nuts for wanting to do so.

Sure, if you have had time to honestly evaluate your marriage and have come to the conclusion that you ended it too soon without trying hard enough to save it then that’s one thing.

But if you, like so many others, are just now facing the fear and uncertainty of being newly single and are starting to think being in a bad marriage is better than being alone you really need to find some help to get over the feelings of loneliness and depression before you do something you’ll regret.

If you’re positive that getting back with your ex is the best thing for both of you, here are a few simple steps you can follow:

1) Be sure you want this. Think of your future with and without your ex. What truly makes you the most happy? If you want your ex back, then set your mid to it and try like hell to get them. (Of course, do not stalk or invade the privacy of your Ex. If you know your Ex doesn’t want you back, then leave it alone.)

2) Try to talk to your ex. Don’t argue or invade their privacy. Just talk and listen. Try to honestly and maturely discuss why the relationship ended. What misunderstandings took you so far away from one another.

If the two of you can honestly discuss how you’re feeling, without recriminations, than you might actually see that you’re not that far apart after all. You have just been coming at it from opposite directions.

3) Take some time to honestly evaluate what part you played in the demise of your marriage. No one is ever completely blameless. What was your part and are you willing to change whatever behavior it was that contributed to the breakup?

4) Try to find resources that will help the two of you communicate. So many couples just have a hard time expressing themselves and listening to their partners. If you can find a way to work around this you might have a shot at not only getting back with your ex but also of making your marriage what you’d truly like it to be.

Going through a divorce is hard and unfortunate, but it’s a whole lot harder and unfortunate to live your life after realizing that you lost one of the most important pieces of it. Sure, you can do it, but the relationship may be worth trying to rekindle. Sometimes a little outside help is the only difference between life long happiness and lifelong regret.

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The “Does My Ex Still Love Me” Syndrome

Tuesday, May 12th, 2009

You’ve broken up with your ex and some time has passed and all seems well, from the outside. The two of you have moved on and the life is looking very encouraging, again, from the outside. Well, what’s happening on the inside exactly? Many people in this situation find themselves wondering if their ex partner still loves them. What does that mean?

If you find yourself in this situation then you may need to seriously think about exactly why you are having these thoughts. Do you still love your ex? Are you just generally interested? The fact of the matter may very well be that you do still care about your ex, and subconsciously you wish that the break up never had occurred.

These thoughts are very typical in loving relationships that abruptly end, or end without both sides exhausting every measure to prevent it from ending. I call it the “does my ex still love me” syndrome because it seems to be on the mind of a high percentage of couples that really want to reconnect with each other.

If getting back with your ex is not possible, then you need to come to terms with the fact that you and your ex are not going to be a couple any longer. Worrying about whether they love still care for you is irrelevant and will only cause you pain. It needs to stop.

However, if there’s a will, there may very well be a way. Instead of wondering, it may be worth it to your sanity and future happiness to try and pursue reconnecting with your ex. I’ve gone through this myself, I know how you feel. I eventually won my ex back using some amazing Relationship Fixing Techniques.

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Don’t Know What You’ve Got Till It’s Gone

Sunday, May 10th, 2009

No, I’m not talking about the 80s song by Cinderella, which was a bad ass song, btw. I’m talking about the situation many of us find ourselves in where we break up with someone that we truly cared about, only to find ourselves much more unhappy once our partner is gone. It actually happens a lot, and it sucks, a lot.

It reminds me of the old Jim Carrey movie, Bruce Almighty. There’s a scene in that movie where Jim Carrey’s character is talking to Morgan Freeman (who plays God) and Jim asks Morgan why not just give everyone what they pray and ask for? Morgan replies, “what makes you think people actually know what they want?” That is so damn true.

If you were in a loving relationship where one of you made the decision to break it off too soon, it may not be a bad idea to try and rekindle what was lost. Realize this, most relationships have ups and downs, even the best of them, don’t let someone you love get away forever for something that can be fixed. If the love was there, then it’s worth giving it a second shot.

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My Husband Lost Interest - How Can I Get Him Back?

Tuesday, March 24th, 2009

Most relationships start under one set of circumstances and expectations and end up somewhere under a difference set of expectations and circumstances. Sometimes this change happens within a few months after the relationship begins, and sometimes it takes several years, but it often does happen. It’s called change, and we all go through it. Some people are just better at adapting than others.

If you’re at a point where your husband seems to have lost interest in you, then you need to analyze a couple things.

One, evaluate if any expectations have changed. If your relationship was once a loving one, then something has changed to get you to the point of wondering where your husband’s interest has gone. Take a look back at how your relationship was at the beginning. What did he say to you that made him happy? He may have grown to expect this element to always be in the relationship. So ask yourself, are you still living up to that today?

Two, evaluate if any circumstances have changed. Many times circumstances play a major role in a relationship. When I say circumstances, I’m talking about “I’m 35 years old and I need to find a man fast so I can have a family” or “I want to find a wife so I can be a Father” type situations. These are circumstances that promote relationship building, but once the circumstance is over, the relationship tends to fall apart.

There could very well be other factors that are beyond the scope of this article, but these issues tend to hold true for most instances of husbands or wives that seem to have lost interest in their relationship.

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