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The “Does My Ex Still Love Me” Syndrome

Tuesday, May 12th, 2009

You’ve broken up with your ex and some time has passed and all seems well, from the outside. The two of you have moved on and the life is looking very encouraging, again, from the outside. Well, what’s happening on the inside exactly? Many people in this situation find themselves wondering if their ex partner still loves them. What does that mean?

If you find yourself in this situation then you may need to seriously think about exactly why you are having these thoughts. Do you still love your ex? Are you just generally interested? The fact of the matter may very well be that you do still care about your ex, and subconsciously you wish that the break up never had occurred.

These thoughts are very typical in loving relationships that abruptly end, or end without both sides exhausting every measure to prevent it from ending. I call it the “does my ex still love me” syndrome because it seems to be on the mind of a high percentage of couples that really want to reconnect with each other.

If getting back with your ex is not possible, then you need to come to terms with the fact that you and your ex are not going to be a couple any longer. Worrying about whether they love still care for you is irrelevant and will only cause you pain. It needs to stop.

However, if there’s a will, there may very well be a way. Instead of wondering, it may be worth it to your sanity and future happiness to try and pursue reconnecting with your ex. I’ve gone through this myself, I know how you feel. I eventually won my ex back using some amazing Relationship Fixing Techniques.

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Your First Step to Getting Back Your Ex Boyfriend

Thursday, February 19th, 2009

Break ups are something that almost all of us go through sometime in our lives but they can be a very painful experience, especially if there are some feelings that still remain. Some relationships end because it’s the best thing to do, for both parties. However, plenty of loving relationships break up for all the wrong reasons, then one or both sits around thinking about what might have been for the rest of their lives.

If you still have feelings for your ex boyfriend and would like to win his love back then you need to be very specific in your approach. Don’t go on an apologizing frenzy and pester the heck out of him apologizing for anything and everything you had ever done. This makes you look too needy and it takes away from the genuine issue – the thing that broke up your relationship.

Most relationships break up because there is one or maybe even a few lingering issues that are dividing two couples and slowly building a level of resentment in one or both sides. If this issue (or issues) isn’t addressed then it will reach a boiling point which typically comes in the form of someone calling it quits.

The core issue that resulted in the break up needs to be identified and discussed with your ex boyfriend if you are ever going to reconcile. Any form of getting back together without addressing the issues that resulted in the split will not be successful long term. Remember, communication is the key to a happy relationship.

My ex walked out on me and only then did I realize how well I had it. See what I did to win my ex back.

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The First Step to Getting Back an Ex Girlfriend

Tuesday, February 17th, 2009

There are many reasons why relationships split up and move in separate directions. Some reasons are for the better, some are for the worse. Only you and your girlfriend know why your relationship parted ways, and that’s good, because you will need to know that in your attempt to win back your girlfriend.

Many guys make the mistake after breaking up and go on an apologizing spree. They apologize for everything they ever done and for many things that they didn’t do as well. This is the absolutely wrong approach. Not only does this make you out to be desperate, but it also makes you out to be uncommitted in your effort to get her back.

Realize this, apologizing for everything makes it look like you’re focusing on nothing. Honestly, if you knew you were doing so many things wrong in the first place why would you be so apologetic now? It just seems like a fraud.

You need to come across as being genuine, and that’s why you absolutely need to focus on the one thing that caused your relationship to part ways. If you don’t address that one thing, and you both get back together, then you will always have that issue lurking down on you both ready to pop out again.

Sometimes it isn’t one specific thing that causes the relationship to break up but more of a combination of many things. If this is the case, then you really need to identify the most important issues that shoved a wedge between you and your ex and come up with a plan to eliminate them. They will not go away on their own.

My ex walked out on me and only then did I realize how well I had it. See what I did to get my ex back.

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Win Back Your Love with a Simple and Highly Effective Technique.

Saturday, February 7th, 2009

Those of us that were lucky enough to find true love know how difficult it is when you lose it. It really doesn’t matter what the break up circumstances were or who initiated the break up, it hurts the same either way. Love is an amazing thing, and only those that have love and lost know what it’s truly like to want to win back your love.

How can you win back your love after a break up?

The first thing you need to do is take a breather – take a break. You both probably said some not-so-nice things to one another and you both need some time away to let things cool. This can be a matter of a few days or even a few weeks depending on the circumstances of the break up. Don’t worry, this time off won’t have any negative impact on your chances to win back your love. It will help.

While you’re taking a breather, think about the relationship with your ex, but concentrate on the good times. Try to identify what made you both laugh and happy. Was it something he or she said or did to you that made you happy? Was it something that you said or did to him that made him happy? It could just be little things like leaving notes on your lover’s pillow saying you love them, or telling them how lucky you are to have them.

You’ll likely notice that many of these little things faded or are just gone from the current relationship (prior to the break up). They may seem like little things, but they’re really not so little at all. These are the things that keep us together – they keep us happy.

Write down what you’ve noticed was lacking. Ask yourself if you can bring those qualities back to the relationship, and decide how you’re going to bring those back. Maybe it will take you designating some special time each day/week where you and your lover can share those wonderful moments.

Now, call your ex lover and immediately apologize for the tension and anything that was said during the break that you regret (we all say these things). Then just go right into it. Tell them your feelings remain and the things that you’ve realized were missing in the relationship and how you would like to rekindle those moments.

Your ex lover will be hit with 4 powerful motivators. One, you apologized for your not-so-nice actions. Two, you identified what made them happy. Three, you want to make them happy again. Four, you even have a plan how to do it. If your goal was to win back your love, I’d say this will give you the best shot!

Don’t be satisfied with just winning your ex back. You need to keep them, and there are some excellent techniques you can use to keep them totally gaga over you for as long as you want.

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Is Getting Back with Your Ex The Right Thing to Do?

Friday, January 23rd, 2009

It’s certainly not easy separating with your ex. You will certainly experience varying levels of pain, but that comes with the task. Confusion is the next biggest hurdle. At what point can we be fully confident that we did the right thing?

Look, some relationships need to come to an end, and the faster the better. These are the people that seemed to fight like mortal enemies right from the get go. It certainly isn’t surprising when these folks call it quits. In fact, it much more surprising when they continue to brutalize each other and stay together. I was in one of these types of relationships in my life. There was no second-guessing myself after this break up - thank God it’s over!

Then there are relationships that always seemed to juggle from good times, to the ok times, to the not-so-good times. These relationships can last forever. I see it happen all the time. Is everyone happy forever? They can be. Breaking up in these types of relationships isn’t fun and it certainly can be devastating.

Most of my relationships throughout my life fell into this category. Breaking up certainly wasn’t fun, but I certainly got over it. Do I think I did the right thing with these break ups? Absolutely. And I’m proud to say that I remain friends with most of these girls.

But every once in a while we find ourselves in a relationship that seems so good that you think there was a higher power responsible for it. Life is good in these types of relationships. You both love the way you feel around each other and tend to day dream about each other when you’re apart. I know, many relationships start this way, but fade after you get to know them.

I’m talking about the relationships where the feelings get stronger the more you get to know the other person. These relationships can be the ingredients of true love. Very sadly, sometimes these relationships come to an end as well. And sometimes the reasons for the end aren’t so clear. I had one of these relationships in my life… and I have to say there was a time when we had broken up, and it was devastating.

Where does your relationship with your ex fit in?

You have to be truthful with yourself. If you truly had a good thing with your ex, then it may not be something you want to give up on. Happiness and a fulfilling life with someone you truly love is absolutely worth pursuing. I was in this situation myself and I took action and every day I feel like I won the lottery.

Take a look at how I won my girl back.

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