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The “Does My Ex Still Love Me” Syndrome

Tuesday, May 12th, 2009

You’ve broken up with your ex and some time has passed and all seems well, from the outside. The two of you have moved on and the life is looking very encouraging, again, from the outside. Well, what’s happening on the inside exactly? Many people in this situation find themselves wondering if their ex partner still loves them. What does that mean?

If you find yourself in this situation then you may need to seriously think about exactly why you are having these thoughts. Do you still love your ex? Are you just generally interested? The fact of the matter may very well be that you do still care about your ex, and subconsciously you wish that the break up never had occurred.

These thoughts are very typical in loving relationships that abruptly end, or end without both sides exhausting every measure to prevent it from ending. I call it the “does my ex still love me” syndrome because it seems to be on the mind of a high percentage of couples that really want to reconnect with each other.

If getting back with your ex is not possible, then you need to come to terms with the fact that you and your ex are not going to be a couple any longer. Worrying about whether they love still care for you is irrelevant and will only cause you pain. It needs to stop.

However, if there’s a will, there may very well be a way. Instead of wondering, it may be worth it to your sanity and future happiness to try and pursue reconnecting with your ex. I’ve gone through this myself, I know how you feel. I eventually won my ex back using some amazing Relationship Fixing Techniques.

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When Children are Involved in the Break Up

Thursday, April 9th, 2009

Relationship problems are significantly greater if you have children with your partner. The children are the innocent bystanders and they really don’t care or need to know who’s wrong or right, they see their mommy and daddy fighting, and that’s all they care about.

Nothing will tear you up more than seeing the disappointment on your kids face when they realize mom and dad arn’t going to be together anymore. Really, is there any good way of explaining it? I certainly don’t know of one. I suppose time will heal those wounds as well… but it just sucks.

Having kids with your partner is certainly a good reason to go the extra mile and try to make the relationship work. Of course, not all relationships are meant to be, but we should all raise our tolarance bar a little higher for the sake of our kids.

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Unfaithful Cheating Wife Signs to Watch Out For

Thursday, February 5th, 2009

There’s only one thing that hurts more than the suspicion that your wife may be unfaithful to you in some way or another, and that’s finally confirming it and hearing her tell you she’d like to leave you. If you’re still in love with your wife, then looking for unfaithful cheating wife signs is a step in the right direction to putting a stop to any split up.

Why are women unfaithful?

There are many reasons, and every relationship is different, but a good majority of the reasons wives become unfaithful is because they find themselves in a relationship where they no longer feel needed or even wanted. These may be totally false feelings and just due to relationship fatigue.

Relationship fatigue is typically encountered in longer term relationships where the “newness” dies down and both are very used to each other and tend to take for granted the other’s contributions to the relationship.
Compliments are made less and less and intimacy even fades as well. Most of all, interest in the other’s day-to-day activities fades. This stuff is very important to women.

Women need to feel like they are on someone’s mind – they make someone happy. If that affection isn’t shown, it could very well push them to look for it elsewhere.

Take a look at your current and past relationship with your wife. Can you see a difference in the attention you gave her when you first met vs. the attention you give her now? Be honest.

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Breaking Up Hurt Like Hell, So Should We Try Again?

Tuesday, January 27th, 2009

Let’s face it, breaking up with someone you’ve been with for a decent amount of time is going to have some degree of hurt that will come along with it. There is just no easy way to get around it. In fact, they say breaking out of a serious relationship can bring more physically pain than a broken limb. I certainly have experienced this pain. It just cuts like a knife.

They also say the only way to combat this pain is through the passing of time. I would agree with this. Time will always ease the pain, it may not ease your love for your partner, but it will become easier to function as time passes. Sometimes that’s just all you can do - count on time to kick in.

It should also be noted that not all break ups need to be final. Sometimes two people in love with one another find themselves not seeing eye-to-eye over petty things that they really don’t mean anything, yet they continue to put a strain on the relationship. In these cases it seems like the lines of communication just break down and one person becomes fed up and decides it’s over, maybe after a heated argument.

These are really unfortunate situations. Typically you’ll end up with two hard-headed individuals going through hell because of it. Both too stubburn to give the other a call and talk things through. For some reason, as time goes by, it gets harder and harder to try to make the next step to reconcile.

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Breaking Up Hurts - Not Sure If I Want To Go Through Again

Friday, January 23rd, 2009

Breaking up with someone you’ve been with for a decent amount of time is going to have some degree of hurt that will come along with it. There’s no getting around it. In fact, they say breaking out of a serious relationship can bring more physically pain than a broken limb. I certainly have experienced this pain in my break up with my long time girlfriend. It sucks.

They also say the only way to combat this pain is through the passing of time. I would agree with this. Time will always ease the pain, it may not ease your love for your partner, but it will become easier to function as time passes. Sometimes that’s just all you can do - count on time to kick in.

It should also be noted that not all break ups need to be final. Sometimes two people in love with one another find themselves not seeing eye-to-eye over petty things that they really don’t mean anything, yet they continue to put a strain on the relationship. In these cases it seems like the lines of communication just break down and one person becomes fed up and decides it’s over, maybe after a heated argument.

These are really unfortunate situations. Typically you’ll end up with two hard-headed individuals going through hell because of it. Both too stubburn to give the other a call and talk things through. For some reason, as time goes by, it gets harder and harder to try to make the next step to reconcile.

Not every break up can be recovered. But if you find yourself in love with someone and you’d like to find a way to win them back, then take the next step. Get some help with finding out what went wrong and how to approach getting your ex back.

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