This is a common question that many girls have when they break up with the boyfriend they really had feelings for. The question you really should be asking yourself is how do you know your boyfriend doesn’t still love you? Maybe he does and he’s just waiting for you to make the first move back?
Break ups occur for many reasons. Some had a good reason and should be broken up. But there are others that just ended for reasons that neither side really can explain quite well. These are times when the break ups are unfortunate.
For example, perhaps there were some accusations flying around and the both of you got into an argument and one of you suggested you break up. When this happens a snowball effect usually follows with “sure, I’m done with you!” or “get out and don’t come back!” or “I don’t love you anyway!” Any of these sound familiar?
The thing is neither side really wanted the break up. They just moved beyond the breaking point and couldn’t return. There’s a good chance that each was hopping the other would back down and come running back.
So, if you’re asking yourself how do I get my boyfriend to love me again, then perhaps you just need to break the ice with your boyfriend over a small get together (like maybe a lunch) and see where he actually stands. You never know, you just may be surprised!