Those of us that were lucky enough to find true love know how difficult it is when you lose it. It really doesn’t matter what the break up circumstances were or who initiated the break up, it hurts the same either way. Love is an amazing thing, and only those that have love and lost know what it’s truly like to want to win back your love.
How can you win back your love after a break up?
The first thing you need to do is take a breather – take a break. You both probably said some not-so-nice things to one another and you both need some time away to let things cool. This can be a matter of a few days or even a few weeks depending on the circumstances of the break up. Don’t worry, this time off won’t have any negative impact on your chances to win back your love. It will help.
While you’re taking a breather, think about the relationship with your ex, but concentrate on the good times. Try to identify what made you both laugh and happy. Was it something he or she said or did to you that made you happy? Was it something that you said or did to him that made him happy? It could just be little things like leaving notes on your lover’s pillow saying you love them, or telling them how lucky you are to have them.
You’ll likely notice that many of these little things faded or are just gone from the current relationship (prior to the break up). They may seem like little things, but they’re really not so little at all. These are the things that keep us together – they keep us happy.
Write down what you’ve noticed was lacking. Ask yourself if you can bring those qualities back to the relationship, and decide how you’re going to bring those back. Maybe it will take you designating some special time each day/week where you and your lover can share those wonderful moments.
Now, call your ex lover and immediately apologize for the tension and anything that was said during the break that you regret (we all say these things). Then just go right into it. Tell them your feelings remain and the things that you’ve realized were missing in the relationship and how you would like to rekindle those moments.
Your ex lover will be hit with 4 powerful motivators. One, you apologized for your not-so-nice actions. Two, you identified what made them happy. Three, you want to make them happy again. Four, you even have a plan how to do it. If your goal was to win back your love, I’d say this will give you the best shot!
Don’t be satisfied with just winning your ex back. You need to keep them, and there are some excellent techniques you can use to keep them totally gaga over you for as long as you want.
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